New Baby on the Way? How to Help Your Cat Through the Change
You don't have to rehome your cat when a baby arrives. How to prepare them before the due date, and why a short boarding stay over the first days home helps everyone.
By Charlotte · Founder••5 min read
If you are expecting a baby, you do not have to rehome your cat, and you certainly do not have to choose between them. But you may want to board your cat for the busy first days home from hospital. A short, calm staycation gives your cat a break from the upheaval while you settle the new arrival, and it buys you time to introduce them to the baby slowly and safely afterwards. A new baby is a big change for a cat, who reads the world through routine and scent. Here is how to make it gentle for everyone.
Why the first days home are the hardest
The days right after a birth are a whirlwind. There are new smells, new sounds, visitors, broken sleep, and far less attention for your cat, all at once. On top of that, you may have a hospital stay where nobody is home to feed and care for your cat on their normal schedule. I have written separately about arranging cat care around a hospital stay, and a birth is the happiest version of the same problem.
Boarding your cat over that window solves both problems. They are fed, clean, and looked after while you are in hospital, and they skip the most chaotic, exhausting first days at home. You bring them back once the house has found a little rhythm.
A guest mid-staycation. While your household is learning to run on two hours of sleep, this is what your cat's week looks like.
Prepare your cat before the baby arrives
Cats cope best with change when it is gradual. In the weeks before your due date, try to introduce the new normal slowly: set up the nursery early so it is not a sudden closed door, let your cat sniff baby items, and play recordings of baby sounds softly so they are not a shock later.
If you plan to board your cat around the birth, book the suite early, since due dates are unpredictable and you want the option ready. You will need vaccination proof and a spot-on parasite treatment done before boarding, so sort those in advance rather than in the final busy weeks.
Introducing cat and baby, gently, afterwards
When your cat comes home, keep the first meetings calm and short. Let your cat approach in their own time rather than forcing an introduction, keep their feeding and litter routine steady, and make sure they still have quiet spaces of their own away from the baby. Most cats adjust well when the change is paced and their routine is protected.
A calm place while you find your feet
While your cat is with us, you can watch them anytime on in-suite CCTV, and we send daily photo and video updates, so even in a sleep-deprived first week you can see they are content. We are a Fear Free certified, cat-only hotel inside a conserved Chinatown shophouse, two minutes from Maxwell MRT, so drop-off and pick-up are quick for you or a family member. Suites start from S$60 a night.
The kind of photo that turns up in your daily updates. This guest sat through a full brushing session and earned the crown to prove it.